How to Style a Tuxedo or Dinner Jacket

As the festive season approaches, the invitations to galas, award ceremonies, New Year’s Eve parties and even weddings start dropping in. And there on the invite are those words that can strike doubt into even the most committed partygoer: “tuxedo” or “dinner jacket”. If you’re not used to formal attire, finding out how to wear a tuxedo may indeed seem daunting. That’s why we’ve written this simple guide to wearing and styling yours. 

What’s the occasion?

First, knowing when to go for a tuxedo or dinner jacket is pivotal. It’s the staple of black-tie events – extravagant weddings, fundraisers, industry gatherings and end-of-year parties, for example. People view the tux as a celebration of timeless style, a nod to tradition amid ever-changing trends. Going the extra mile and donning the DJ shows you respect the organisers and the occasion, and you certainly won’t be alone. 

Whether to wear one will ultimately be a judgement call. Remember that a dinner jacket can certainly be overdressed in less formal situations, and you could end up standing out for all the wrong reasons. Look for clues on the invitation, and ask others who are attending, or who have attended the same event in past years. The more formal the event, the more likely it is that a tux will be called for.

The tuxedo or dinner jacket itself

At the heart of your ensemble is the tuxedo itself. Classic detailing are the hallmarks. Satin lapels suggest luxury, whether you favour the notch, peak or shawl collar. Single-breasted designs radiate a refined charm, although a double-breasted jacket can lend a real distinguished air.

Fit is everything – an impeccably tailored jacket should skim your shoulders perfectly and fall neatly over your torso. Don’t overlook the power of premium fabric: velvet or satin is the way to go. You’ll get that unmistakable shimmer as you move, and it all adds to the mystique.

Traditional colours reign with tuxedos, so black and midnight blue remain fail-safes. If the event is formal but with celebratory undertones (such as an award ceremony or business soiree), why not introduce a little colour to proceedings? You can find tuxedos in all shades, although dark greens and burgundies look particularly opulent. Of course, if you just want to show off – and there’s nothing wrong with that – consider an extravagant Paisley number

Shirt selection

You simply must pair your tuxedo with the right shirt. A white dress shirt with refined details like a pleated front or bib shows you understood the brief. Wingtip collars exude old-world charm, though a classic spread collar provides a slightly more practical alternative.

Opt for fabrics that breathe. Fine cotton is always the best option, ensuring comfort whilst maintaining a polished appearance all evening long. A perfect fit hugs your frame without constriction or billowing.

Accessories

The right accessories can make or break your look. A classic black bow tie – ideally self-tie for authenticity – adds that quintessential finishing touch. If tying isn’t your thing, pre-tied versions are available, and 99% of the people at the event will be none the wiser.

Pocket squares can add a subtle highlight. Whether you opt for contrast or simplicity, folding patterns like the presidential or puff fold will sprinkle on a little attention to detail. Cufflinks are not just functional; they reflect sophisticated charm. Choose materials like silver, onyx or mother of pearl for understated elegance.

For footwear, you’ll definitely meet the grade in a pair of polished patent leather Oxfords. Fine cotton socks in dark hues complement rather than distract from your trousers.

Tuxedos and Tuxedon’ts

Here is your quick reference guide to wearing the tux:

Do …

• ensure an impeccable fit by measuring up properly.
• stick to classic colours like black and midnight blue for formal events.
• invest in quality fabrics that keep their form.
• pay attention to grooming; tamed hair and a clean shave or trimmed beard add sophistication.

Don’t …

• have loud patterns on shirts, or garish accessories.
• wear novelty cufflinks or OTT socks that disrupt the flow.
• mix a tuxedo jacket with casual attire.
• over-accessorise – the tux is the star here.

Final flourishes

It’s often the little things that leave a lasting impression. Consider adding personality with discreet touches. A vintage pocket watch or a restrained lapel pin offers character without shouting for attention.

Ultimately, if you wear your dinner jacket with confidence, everyone notices you, not your outfit. The best accessory in any ensemble is self-assurance; it’s what brings everything together and makes it complete.