What to Wear for a Destination Wedding
Destination weddings have carved out a special niche over the past 20 years. Whether it’s a sun-drenched beach in the Caribbean or a majestic French chateau, these weddings promise unforgettable experiences for the couple and guests alike.
But with all that promise comes one big question for guys: what to wear? This guide has got you covered for both sizzling hot beaches and cool alternative destination weddings.
Timeless tips for all destination weddings
Before we go into the specifics, let’s get some general tips out of the way. The best tip is to do a bit of homework. Look up the destination’s climate and social customs for the time of year. Look up what the locals do and how they dress. You’ll no doubt be able to find plenty of photos and videos on social media of other people’s weddings.
Many wedding invitations will specify a dress code, whether it’s at home or abroad. As a guest, that might restrict you a little, but it also makes your task easier. When it comes to fabric, make sure it’s breathable for warmer climates or insulating for colder ones. Don’t forget versatility, as layering is your best friend. And finally, consider your luggage: pack items that can withstand a bit of travel-induced wrinkle or wear.
Warm destination weddings
Jetting off to somewhere warm is the classic overseas wedding. When it’s grey and wintry in the UK, the prospect of a few days in the Caribbean with friends and family can be impossible to resist.
Beach weddings
Beaches are synonymous with casual fun. If you’re a guest, opt for light, breathable fabrics like linen or cotton. Light-coloured wedding suits work wonderfully, but smart casual options are just as acceptable. Think beige or pastel shades. It’s not uncommon in beach weddings for everyone to be wearing shorts, so check that all-important dress code.
Footwear needn’t be formal; loafers, boat shoes or even stylish sandals will do the trick. Accessories should be minimal but functional – a stylish hat or an elegant pair of sunglasses can finish off your look while keeping you comfortable.
Depending on the formality of the event, the groom and groomsmen might choose a full suit or perhaps tailored separates. For footwear, breathable loafers or elegant sandals work well. Consider accessories like matching buttonholes and lightweight ties or bowties. A neatly folded pocket square can add that finishing touch.
City weddings in warmer climes
If the wedding is in a city that’s associated with warmth, be it Rio, Barcelona, Melbourne or Bangkok, you’ll probably find the event is a little more formal than the beach venues. You will probably be wearing a full suit, so opt for a colour and fabric that’s light (in both senses of the word), as wedding days can be long. Warm cities tend to stay hot and sticky well into the night, so be prepared to layer and un-layer to order.
Another possibility is that you’ll be wearing the clothing that’s customarily worn by the locals during festivities. It’s worth asking the couple what’s expected here, or putting it on the dress code if you’re the hosts.
Alternative overseas weddings
There’s no end to the possibilities when it comes to overseas weddings. Use these examples to get an idea of what might be acceptable and functional.
Icelandic glacier weddings
When it’s about saying your “I dos” against the majestic backdrop of an Icelandic glacier, keeping warm yet stylish is paramount. Layering is the key here. Start with thermal base layers, followed by insulating mid-layers, and top it off with a waterproof outer layer. Presumably, after the outdoor vows, proceedings will move indoors, so make sure all your layers can be worn on their own.
Opt for stylish, insulated jackets or coats. A double-breasted suit with a waistcoat will maximise the insulation while staying stylish. Waterproof, sturdy footwear is essential and can still be elegant if you choose well-crafted boots. Accessories like gloves, scarves and hats aren’t just for warmth – they can be stylish additions to your outfit.
For the groom and groomsmen, thermal, tailored suits or tuxedos in wool-blend fabrics provide a good mix of warmth and formality. Layer your look with stylish vests and thermal undergarments for added insulation.
Elegant leather boots will not only be practical but will also complement the overall outfit. Smart gloves, scarves and subtle cufflinks can tie it all together. How about a luxurious silk scarf that matches your pocket square for an elegant finishing touch?
French chateau weddings
Elegance reigns supreme at a French chateau wedding. Think classic suits in shades of navy, black or grey. Silk ties or bowties add that sense of timeless sophistication. When it comes to shoes, polished Oxfords or brogues are your best bet. Don’t forget the smaller details – pocket squares, cufflinks and a stylish watch are the details that matter.
Traditional morning suits or classic tuxedos are the order of the day for the main party. High-quality fabrics such as velvet or satin will always result in standout pieces. Subtle yet sophisticated accessories like buttonholes, quirky waistcoats and elegant ties will complete the look. When it comes to footwear, it’s all about classic polished dress shoes.
Theme weddings
Whether it’s an Elvis wedding in Las Vegas or an elvish wedding in the Scottish Highlands, theme weddings are always fun and memorable. Unless you’re already into a certain niche, you might not have the required gear for the event, so you’re probably best improvising or looking at costume hire companies.
Of course, there are many themes that require a suit, so try and find one that fits the bill, whether it’s a Peaky Blinders or a Downton Abbey theme. Take in the details and nuances that make the suit look of its era, and have fun accessorising.
The time of your life
Dressing for a destination wedding is an art that requires a blend of research, versatility and style. From the sunny beaches to the icy glaciers and everything in between, the perfect outfit should always respect local customs and the unique vibe of the event. That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t let your personal style shine through. Remember, the best attire is one that makes you feel comfortable and confident, ready to celebrate love wherever the knot is being tied.
