What to wear for an autumn wedding

When most of us think of the wedding season, it’s likely that we picture summer in full bloom, the sun radiating light and heat. But in actual fact, there are weddings all year round in the UK, with the peak season lasting from the start of June to the end of September – only really starting to tail off in November. 

That’s why it makes sense to have a good selection of wedding clothing for the cooler seasons. As we explore autumnal wedding attire in this article, you’ll notice that it’s not too different to summer’s collection. There are just a few subtle tweaks you might want to make to take nature into account. For example, it’s likely that with an afternoon wedding, it’ll be dark outside by the time the reception is over, and that makes a difference when it comes to temperature and how you dress for it. 

Like with any wedding attire guide, the first thing you should do is check the invitation. While many invites won’t specify a dress code, some couples do like to make things special by asking guests to observe a few rules. In some ways this makes it easier for guests, but you still need to know the subtleties of each. Here, we’ll cover formal, black tie, cocktail and semi-formal codes. In the absence of a specified dress code, semi-formal is probably your best bet.

Five key rules

These overarching tips will get you through any autumn wedding:

• Layers are key. Autumn weather is all over the place. Layer up so you can adapt.
• Material matters. Wool mix and mid-weight fabrics are your friends. They’ll keep you comfortable and structured.
• The correct shoes. Patent leather for formal or black tie; leather Oxfords for cocktail; suede brogues for semi-formal.
• Scarves and accessories. Have a silk scarf handy for colder moments. Accessories like pocket squares add personality.
• Fit is everything. A well-fitted regular suit looks better than an expensive suit that doesn’t fit.

Formal wedding attire guide

Formal dress code means you’re going all-out. Think tails, waistcoat, dress shirt and a bow tie. A top hat?  It’s probably not necessary, nowadays. The groomsmen might be wearing them as part of their outfits, so that’s all the more reason not to join them. If in doubt, have a chat with the couple or the best man. 

To manage the weather, go for a mid-weight morning suit. A good quality wool blend works best. Pair it with patent leather lace-up dress shoes – no loafers here. Keep a silk scarf ready for when the weather turns. Whether it’s for yourself or a gallant offer to one of the other guests, only time will tell. 

Black Tie Weddings

Black tie sounds daunting, giving off red carpet vibes and swanky business events, but it’s simpler than you think. You need a black tuxedo, a white dress shirt, a black bow tie, and black patent leather loafers. 

If you’ve attended black tie events during the festive season, simply reuse your tuxedo for the wedding. You might want to leave the overcoat at home, though. It’s autumn, not December. Thinking of getting a new tux? Go for it. And while you’re at it, consider a satin bow tie for a touch of luxury. 

Cocktail attire

Cocktail attire is trendy and stylish, sitting comfortably between black tie and semi-formal. Think sharp, but not too sharp. You’ll also be able to turn on a bit of glamour here, with colours, patterns and fabrics that ooze sophisticated fun, dancing and laughter. 

If you’re unsure about the weather, get the three-piece. You can always ditch the waistcoat if it gets warm, or throw off the jacket when you hit the dancefloor. For accessories, go with a neck tie instead of a bow tie. Throw in a pocket square for some flair. Polish it off with your favourite leather Oxfords.

Semi-formal/smart casual

Thanks to the rise of informal weddings, the “semi-formal” or “smart casual” code is becoming more common. It raises so many questions – chinos or trousers? Tie or no tie? What shoes? We’ve written a more in-depth article on the nuances of formal versus semi-formal dress for men, so have a read if you’re struggling. To sum it up, it’s dialled-down formal and dialled-up casual.

Just remember: it’s still a wedding. We’d recommend a mid-weight suit, but you can opt for trousers and a blazer if you prefer. Feel free to experiment with colours and patterns – jewel and earthy tones are ideal for autumn. Choose informal suede brogues or desert shoes for a laid-back vibe. Wear a tie for the ceremony but you can remove it later. 

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With an eye on the dress code and stylish mindset, you’ll ace any autumn celebrations with ease. It’s a great opportunity to show your elegant side to friends, family or colleagues, so go for it with confidence and swagger, and you’ll fit right in.